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The Foundation

From protection to participation

1 h 15 minKings Road

Service Description

Not another tool. The ground it stands on. When you're tired but can't quite switch off. When you've finally got time to yourself but can't seem to settle into it. When you're inexplicably irritable, rushing when there's nowhere you particularly need to be, or carrying that low-level buzz of agitation in your body that tells you you're slightly more on edge than you'd like. You're functioning. Getting on with your life. Nothing that would look, from the outside, like a problem. You'd just rather it didn't feel quite so uncomfortable to be in your own skin quite so often. Maybe you've read about the nervous system. You understand its importance. You've tried the breathwork, the journalling, the meditation — perhaps even the cold plunges. Some of it helped. Some of it didn't really do anything. Maybe something felt good while you were doing it, but didn't seem to translate into the moments when you actually needed it. And perhaps you'd like to understand what is actually happening rather than constantly reaching for another thing to make it stop. You may not need another tool. You may need a better map. The Foundation is a four-session introduction to understanding your nervous system — not simply nervous system theory, but how activation, settling, protection and connection actually show up in you. Because there is information about you that no book, coach or expert can give you. It becomes available when you learn to tune inwards, be present with your felt experience and begin to understand the language of your own nervous system. Together, we'll map how your system tends to respond, identify the early signals you may currently notice only once they've become loud, explore your own triggers and glimmers, and build a range of resources that make sense for you. You'll also begin learning the practice of somatic self-enquiry — becoming curious about what you're experiencing rather than immediately trying to suppress it, explain it away or make it disappear. This isn't about collecting more regulation hacks. It's about becoming increasingly literate in your own internal experience. So when that familiar restlessness, agitation or activation appears, you're better able to recognise what's happening, stay in relationship with yourself and know how to offer yourself support. The aim isn't to become permanently calm. It's to understand yourself well enough to have more agency and choice in how you meet what arises. This isn't just foundational nervous system knowledge. It's the beginning of a different relationship with yourself. Across four 60-minute sessions, we'll explore: Session 1 — Your Nervous System Map Understand the different states of your nervous system and begin recognising your own patterns, signals and automatic responses. Session 2 — Triggers & Glimmers Explore what tends to move your system towards protection and what supports greater ease, connection and availability. Session 3 — Your Regulating Resources Develop a more personalised understanding of what genuinely supports your system — and why something that works beautifully for someone else may do very little for you. Session 4 — Somatic Self-Enquiry Begin learning how to tune inwards, stay present with your felt experience and support yourself from that deeper level.


Cancellation Policy

Foundations of Safety & Self-Support is a structured four-session container. By enrolling, you are reserving a recurring weekly time and committing to the full container. Payment & Commitment Payment secures your place in the container. The container fee applies to the full four sessions and is not session-by-session. Rescheduling A minimum of 24 hours’ notice is required to reschedule a session. Where possible, I will offer an alternative time within the same week. Sessions cancelled with less than 24 hours’ notice will be counted as completed and are not refundable. Continuity This work is designed to be sequential and relational. Missed sessions may interrupt the developmental process, so consistency is strongly encouraged. Virtual Option If you are unable to attend in person, sessions may be held online where appropriate.


Contact Details

  • 5 Kings Road, Coleraine, UK

    07736643362

    support@karenshirlow.com


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5 Kings Road​

Coleraine, BT51 3LN​​

Mob: 07736643362

Email: support@karenshirlow.com

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